June 22, 2024

There can be a gulf in understanding between men and women where sexy lingerie is concerned. It can certainly be true that what men find ‘sexy,’ women can often find trashy, uncomfortable or worse!

So as a woman you may have some difficult decisions to make when choosing which sexy lingerie to wear, as to please your guy you may need to step out of your comfort zone!

To help you we’re going to look at the 5 styles of sexy lingerie that are guaranteed to drive your guy totally crazy and some tips on how to wear them for best results:

Which Styles Of Sexy Lingerie Do Guys Like?

In general guys like anything that’s tight, sheer or even see-through, lacy and made from leather or PVC.

You might think, “Woah, that sounds extremely unflattering!” But remember that men are engaged visually and won’t perceive the same, or any, flaws in your body as you do. The good news is that any sexy lingerie that you wear probably isn’t going to be on for a long time, as it’s just the starter before the main course; so any discomfort you do feel will be brief.

1. Sexy Adult Costume

These costumes are all about one thing and one thing only. Fantasies! There isn’t a guy alive who wouldn’t enjoy his partner dressing up in a sexy adult costume to live out their wildest fantasies! Role play isn’t something that many women do regularly, as it’s often seen as silly, or embarrassing. But the proof of the pudding is in the eating as they say, so give it a try at least once!

There are many special costumes that you can buy, ranging from pirates to air hostesses, but it’s really easy to dress up using regular clothes too. For instance you can make a ‘sexy schoolgirl’ outfit just by wearing a white shirt tied up, plaid skirt and tights for some DIY fun!

Why not play truth or dare to get to know your man’s fantasies and then surprise him by making them real one day?

2. Bra, Thong Panty, Garter Belt & Stockings Set

These aren’t just one piece of sexy lingerie as you can see, but these items combined equal THE most iconic set of sexy lingerie that it’s possible to wear and has been immortalized by everyone from Marilyn Monroe to Kim Kardashian! If you haven’t tried it, then you really must just once in your life! It may not be the most comfy outfit, but if you choose reasonably high quality material then it needn’t be too uncomfortable. The upside is that men absolutely love this look and you are at once both covered and showing lots of skin which will excite him no end!

Classic colors are black, red and white, but you can also choose softer, more feminine colors like light-blue, pink and nude which aren’t so hardcore.

If your guy comes home to see you wearing nothing but this and some heels we’re talking serious fireworks!

3. Negligee

Teasing is the name of the game here. A negligee is one of the best items of sexy lingerie as it offers a lot of coverage and is very forgiving, so if there are some areas of your body that you’re not so happy with then it’s perfect.

This short gown can be rather sheer, but hides just enough to excite your guy with the anticipation of what’s underneath!

They’re quite pleasantly tactile as well, as negligees often come in silk which he will not only enjoy the feel of, but also feels great against your skin.

Sometimes it’s what you DON’T show off that’s the sexiest and in this case a negligee is a winner.

4. Corset or Bustier

Corsets and bustiers are great for everyone concerned as men think they’re a really hot item of sexy lingerie and they give you a really good shape. Corsets were invented hundreds of years ago to shape women’s bodies into a more desirable hourglass shape and the good news is that that hasn’t changed!

Naturally, a by-product of this is that your bust gets a natural boost, so prepare for epic cleavage!

Bustiers are similar, but actually have integrated cups, giving more support and a further boost, especially to girls with bigger busts.

They’re available in many different designs and colors, so if red satin is your thing for instance, then you can pick one up!

They’re also so versatile that you don’t only need to wear them in the bedroom, as they work well with jeans too if you’re daring enough to wear one on a night out!

5. Teddy

This sexy lingerie isn’t your favorite stuffed toy! It’s a slinky body-suit with spaghetti straps that is often made of very sheer lace or mesh material.

Again, teddies often aren’t super revealing, so are great for the more bashful amongst us, but where the front is fairly covered, they are often backless, so there’s plenty for men to appreciate. As ever, men love black, red and white. But for some extra fun you could get one in leopard or zebra print!